One of the Guys
I was driving through northern California last week, listening to a podcast about Buddhist meditation. It was a great way to dwindle away the long, dry miles of the Sacramento Valley, especially since the speaker didn’t talk like your typical Zen-centered facilitator. A cowboy poet would have been more like it, or cowboy koan-ist, as it were, except that he sounded more Brooklyn than Dallas, with a sprinkling perhaps of the great Midwest.
I particularly appreciated his discussion about his own experiences with meditation—how it had helped to bring about a sense of happiness and balance and equanimity and connectedness to the world around him. Meditation, he believes also made him more intuitive, which he thinks is a real cool thing for guys. “I was never intuitive being a guy,” he said. “It didn’t make any sense to me. Why would anyone want to have feelings like that?”
When he said this, he spoke with the same easy drawl he’d been using all along, a way of talking that somehow emphasized his roots as a real man, despite his having slipped into a more spiritual and enlightened persuasion. (more…)




